March 4, 2006, 4:22 p.m. (Message 44473, in reply to message 44467)
My rather historical understanding of dance cards is that they were useful for a) very popular girls organizing their partners in a civilized way, and for less popular girls pretending they were waiting for their partner to appear when in fact they lacked one; and b) making certain of getting a partner whom you know really knows how to, say, tango, for the sole tango on the program, if you're a real tango afficianado (or polka, or waltz, or whatever). I daresay they would cut down on the time needed to find a new partner. Mind you, I am NOT speaking from personal experience. I can report that my great-aunt had a scrap book of dance cards saved from ballroom dances (NOT scd) she'd attended in her youth. As for meeting partners in the middle of the floor...in my dim & distant past I recall being admonished, in ballroom-dance lessons, that dance floors were NEVER to be anything but circumnavigated (in-between dances, that is). Is this concept foreign to SCD? Or just completely passe? Or both? --Jill H., Lyons, NY