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  • Anselm Lingnau

    Anselm Lingnau March 14, 2006, 1:41 a.m. (Message 44695)

    Re: Teaching and guns (was: Where are the RSCDS???)

    Ron Mackey wrote:
    > 	What do you tell someone of 50+,say, who wants to dance?
    > "Don't bother - you'll never master sufficient technique? You'll only
    > slow us down?  You'll make us look shoddy?"
    Everyone should aspire to dance to the best of their abilities. For some (the  
    lucky few) this may mean »perfectly in all respects«; for others, »getting 
    there at the right time, socially«. Age may be a factor in this but often 
    isn't. As long as you're giving your best, and are enjoying yourself, nobody 
    can really complain.
    On the whole, most people seem to have certain ideas of how much they are 
    willing to exert themselves (both mentally and physically); if they can have 
    enough fun while staying within the confines of these limits, then they enjoy 
    doing SCD. Push them to exceed them on a regular basis, and they will leave 
    in order to look for something less strenuous to do. This interplays with the 
    observation that, in many cases, better technique results in higher 
    satisfaction (because more things »just work«, less time is necessary for 
    explanations, more difficult dances can be attempted, etc.).
    The trick, apparently, is getting people to find out that while they *think* 
    they're having lots of fun when they're just stampeding around the set like a 
    herd of hippos, that once they've got the hang of current SCD technique they 
    will be having even *more* fun. I don't have a foolproof method for doing 
    Anselm Lingnau, Frankfurt, Germany .....................
    Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time
    for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their
    own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it's all over.
                                                                 -- Octavia Butler

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