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Pia Walker

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Try lateral thinking: take them aside - point out a couple of
"beginners" - tell them you need their help - could they please dance a
couple of easy dances with them - help them through the dances. Maybe,
just maybe this might help - the reason these people might not look at you
could be because they are in such awe of you, and cannot stare directly into
the sun :>) Being the ones in control might bring out the best in them.

Pia

>>[Ben:] Ah yest BUT, what do you do with a partner who won't look at you
>>(or anyone else for that matter)? I know of at least two people, who I
suspect
>>sufferrred some abuse in earlier life, who just look at the floor all the
>>time. After several years of saying " hey, smile, look at me, etc." I have
>>just about given up in trying to cue one of them, other than verbally. Any
>>suggestions?
>
>We can all probably think of 1 or 2 people who don't behave/respond like
>most other dancers we know and who require "special handling". If these are
>behaviors you have not been able to change in years of interaction, then it
>is unlikely that anybody has a magic cure for you. Whatever you have
>already been doing that works is probably the right answer. While it may
>seem odd or non-SCD-ish for dancers with years of experience to continually
>look at the floor, those people do keep coming to dance and the dance
>probably satisfies an important need in their lives. Still, I would not
>give up on the "hey, smile, look at me, etc.". Someday you may break
>through. Or maybe they believe they ARE doing what you suggest, but are
>smiling inside and seeing you through the corners of their eyes.
>
>Cheers, Oberdan.
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