I've been reading this discussion with interest, and I think the one statement
which really caught my eye was the one below. Sound thinking, and a way to keep
things on a peaceful keel in the set.
Norman Dahl wrote:
> In either event, though, it's a question of courtesy. People hint at me > because they think................ that I need it. If > they're right, I'm grateful; if they're wrong, I'm graceful. >