Cues

Priscilla M. Burrage

Message 19143 · 29 Oct 1999 18:27:24 · Fixed-width font · Whole thread

On Fri, 29 Oct 1999, Melbourne Briscoe wrote a good explanation of his
earier remarks and I'd like to comment on one of them:

> It does appear that we adults are more able to receive feedback when it is
> not meant (or perceived) to be hurtful.

That's the problem, isn't it, Mel. When I'm giving advice, do I really
know how it's being perceived? When I'm receiving advice, do I stop to
analyze why it bugs me so much?

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